Couples Therapy +
Marriage Counseling
With Judilin Bosita, PsyD, LMFT
Couples therapy isn’t just for relationships in crisis - it’s also for partners who care deeply and want to stop drifting apart.
Together, we’ll slow things down, look at what’s happening underneath arguments, and rebuild safety and trust.
Are you stuck in the same fight?
Is there love between you, but less laughter or closeness?
Are you walking on eggshells or unsure how to reconnect?
Feeling like roommates and wondering when the color in your relationship faded?
Couples Come to Me When They’re…
Having communication problems
Stuck in patterns
Lacking intimacy
Craving connection + loneliness
Recovering from betrayal
Exploring new relationship models
Struggling with resentment
Feeling “like roommates”
When having the same fight leads nowhere new, couples therapy generates the clarity and insight necessary to bring about desired change.
You can have a relationship that’s stable, intimate, and alive again
What Couples Therapy With Me Looks Like
I take a direct, compassionate approach.
I’ll help you identify when and how conflict starts, notice your body’s signals of stress, and learn to regulate before things spiral.
I’ll hold both of you accountable and help you express what you truly need without defensiveness or blame.
Modalities I Use
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Uses nervous system awareness and attachment science to help couples calm conflict and create safety in real time.
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Promotes equity between partners and teaches skills for honesty, respect, and mutual accountability.
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Deepens understanding of how early attachment patterns show up in your relationship today; builds trust and closeness.
After sessions with me, you’ll have practical tools to shift patterns and strengthen your bond. Together, we’ll replace reactivity with clarity, empathy, and teamwork.
You’re both human, support can make all the difference.
In our work together, I’ll support you both to improve communication, decrease reactivity, and repairing trust to create security and closeness in your relationship.
After Working With Me, Couples Report
Stronger intimacy
Healthier conflict resolution
Tools to stay regulated during conflict
Awareness of each other’s triggers
Fewer reactive arguments
Clear communication
A deeper sense of partnership + respect
Renewed friendship + teamwork
Confidence to bring up hard topics
About Judilin Bosita, PsyD, LMFT
I’m a therapist who believes relationships can heal when both people feel seen, supported, and safe. My style is direct, compassionate, and supportive. I’ll challenge you with care and celebrate your progress along the way.
Couples therapy with me isn’t about blame; it’s about understanding. Together, we’ll look at the cycle that keeps you stuck and learn how to repair, reconnect, and grow.
Availability: I work with couples online in Texas and California
Education, Credentials, Trainings & Publications
Doctor of Psychology, The Chicago School of Professional Psychology
Master of Arts, Antioch University
Bachelor of Arts, New School University
RLT (Relational Life Therapy Therapy) Certification, Current
PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) Coach, Level 1 & 2
PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy Couples) Training, Master Class
PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) Couples Training, Case Analysis Labs 1 & 2
PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) Couples Training, Certified Level 1 & 2
3 Steps To
Get Started
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Fill out the contact form and share what’s been happening. You’ll always hear back from me.
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We’ll have a short call to discuss what’s bringing you in and how couples therapy can help.
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Together, we’ll start exploring your relationship dynamics and practice slowing down conflict in real time.