Couples Therapy

Judilin Bosita, PsyD, LMFT

With Judilin Bosita, PsyD, LMFT

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Couples therapy isn’t just for relationships in crisis; it’s for partners who care deeply and want to stop drifting apart.

  • Do you feel stuck in the same fight?

  • Is there love between you, but less laughter or closeness?

  • Are you walking on eggshells or unsure how to reconnect?

  • Feeling like roommates and wondering when the color in your relationship faded?

Together, we’ll slow things down, look at what’s happening underneath arguments, and rebuild safety and trust.

Clients Come to Me When They Are

  • Stuck in patterns

  • Lacking intimacy

  • Craving connection + distant

  • Recovering from life changes

  • Exploring new relationship models

  • Struggling with resentment

When it feels like talking leads nowhere, therapy can help you see patterns and change them together.

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What Couples Therapy With Me Looks Like

I take a direct, compassionate approach. I’ll help you identify when and how conflict starts, notice your body’s signals of stress, and learn to regulate before things spiral.

I’ll hold both of you accountable and help you express what you truly need without defensiveness or blame.

Modalities I Use

  • Uses nervous system awareness and attachment science to help couples calm conflict and create safety in real time.

  • Promotes equity between partners and teaches skills for honesty, respect, and mutual accountability.

  • Deepens understanding of how early attachment patterns show up in your relationship today; builds trust and closeness.

    After sessions with me, you’ll have practical tools to shift patterns and strengthen your bond. Together, we’ll replace reactivity with clarity, empathy, and teamwork.
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“You’re both human, and support can make all the difference.”

After Working With Me, Clients Report

  • Renewed intimacy

  • Awareness of triggers

  • Fewer reactive arguments

  • Clear communication

  • A deeper sense of partnership

  • Renewed friendship + teamwork

  • Confidence to bring up hard topics

You can have a relationship that feels grounded, kind, and alive again.

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About Judilin Bosita, PsyD, LMFT

I’m a therapist who believes relationships can heal when both people feel seen, supported, and safe. My style is direct, loving, and sometimes playful. I’ll challenge you with care and celebrate your progress along the way.

Couples therapy with me isn’t about blame; it’s about understanding. Together, we’ll look at the cycle that keeps you stuck and learn how to repair, reconnect, and grow.

Availability: I work with couples online in Texas and California

More About Me

Education, Credentials, Trainings & Publications

  • Doctor of Psychology, The Chicago School of Professional Psychology

  • Master of Arts, Antioch University

  • Bachelor of Arts, New School University

  • RLT (Relational Life Therapy Therapy) Certification, Current

  • PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) Coach, Level 1 & 2

  • PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy  Couples) Training, Master Class

  • PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) Couples Training, Case Analysis Labs 1 & 2

  • PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy) Couples Training, Certified Level 1 & 2

3 Steps To
Get Started

  • Fill out the contact form and share what’s been happening. You’ll always hear back from me.

  • We’ll have a short call to discuss what’s bringing you in and how couples therapy can help.

  • Together, we’ll start exploring your relationship dynamics and practice slowing down conflict in real time.

Ready to bring back understanding and closeness?

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